But it sure would be cool to live in the same town as you!!!!!!!!! How serious are YOU about going there?
I'm getting there. Serious, that is. I've applied for a faculty position at Trent (I doubt that I'll get it, but hoping nevertheless) and am going to make inquiries at various other places. Jim and his kids live in Peterborough and it's become apparent that one of us has to move if we're going to keep this relationship going. That three hour drive is getting boring.
It's not an easy decision. I don't have kids of my own to worry about, but his family situation is complicated and messy - his kids are still getting over their parents' separation and their mother is not behaving at all like a responsible mother should. I don't want to add more upset to their lives. He'd like me to move into his house, but it's very small and I think that a place of my own, at least to start, would be a better idea.
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Date: 2006-02-07 02:52 am (UTC)I'm getting there. Serious, that is. I've applied for a faculty position at Trent (I doubt that I'll get it, but hoping nevertheless) and am going to make inquiries at various other places. Jim and his kids live in Peterborough and it's become apparent that one of us has to move if we're going to keep this relationship going. That three hour drive is getting boring.
It's not an easy decision. I don't have kids of my own to worry about, but his family situation is complicated and messy - his kids are still getting over their parents' separation and their mother is not behaving at all like a responsible mother should. I don't want to add more upset to their lives. He'd like me to move into his house, but it's very small and I think that a place of my own, at least to start, would be a better idea.
Anyway, we'll see how the job hunt goes.